Category: being a teacher
Are You Smart?
Now make no mistake, I knew the question would be difficult and yet we, as teachers, often use the label “smart” to describe students in conferences and on report cards. So can we answer what it means to be smart ourselves?
My students struggled through the journal prompt and today I had the opportunity to read their thoughts. I was blown away by their insight. Many lamented the fact that they did not know which smart I was referring to; was I referring to the school smart or to the logical smart? By smart, who was I comparing them to? They feel smart compared to a 3-year-old but not compared to a teacher. Many kids disucussed that school can make you smarter but one pointed out that it is not the only thing that makes us smart and my heart rejoiced.
Some discussed, again so thankful at their wisdom, that smart is something you grow into, not something you are born with. Some unfortunately compared their smartness to how well they do on tests, and my spirit dropped a little.
In the end, no one student had the same answer but they made me think; how do we define smart? How do we show our students that they are indeed smart? Is their any point in even discussing it with them or should we be focusing instead on the abilities they have; their problem solving skills, their work ethics, their creativity? Do students need to feel smart to succeed? And how do we stop tests from robbing them of their self-esteem and faith in themselves?
I may have asked my students one questions, but they asked many more of me. It was a great day for thinking.
But We Get So Excited….
So as we go through another lesson on paragraphs and the students correctly put all of the pieces together, I ask them, “Do you all know this?” A resounding “Yes!” greets me. “Well, then why don’t you use it in your writing?” Silence and then this answer, “Well, we just forget because we get so excited…” I smile and move on.
I wonder how many times students don’t show their best work because they are so excited…
Why Giving Second Chances Should be Second Nature
Last year, my students got to fix everything they handed in. Stupid mistakes became teaching moments, sloppy work was enhanced, and gaps of knowledge were filled in. It was certainly more work for me, but what it taught the kids was invaluable; perseverance, dedication, and not being afraid to try something. More learning occurred in my room last year than ever before. And this year is no different, my students give me their best and then we figure out how to learn even more. By giving them second chances, they are proving to me how much they really know, outside of the anxiety, the pressure, and the rigidity that can occur. So why not try it? Give your students back that test and tell them to fix it, give them back their work and tell them to enhance it. Give them another chance to learn.
Please Don’t Mark It Wrong – How Our Society Raise Children Afraid to Fail
The truth is we are doing this to kids, we, this society in pursuit of perfection is doing it to our kids, because it was done to us as well. My daughter, who granted is only a wise two and a half year old is not afraid to fail. She gets frustrated sure, but she tries and tries and then sometimes tries again. We encourage this at home, urging her on, urging her to explore, to pick herself up. Again, again, again. Will she be the child in 8 years that stands petrified in front of me, asking for help because trying seems too daunting?
No teacher or parent tries to make their child afraid of failure. Yet our practices in schools support this notion that failure is the worst thing that can happen. An incorrect answer on a test pulls down your grade, you get enough, and you get an F for failure stamped across it for the world to see. That F means nothing valid, nothing worth reading here, nothing worth. Homework that is meant to be practice is tabulated, calculated, and spit out on our report cards. The child who gets the answer right is heralded as smart, the child who gets it wrong is told to keep trying and maybe they will get it someday.
How we run our classrooms directly affect how students feel about themselves. About how they feel about their own capabilities and their own intelligence. I fail all the time in front my kids, not on purpose, I try stuff and it doesn’t work and we talk about it. And yet, I am not perfect either. I catch myself in using practice problems as assessment, where really they should be viewed just as practice. I praise the kids that get it right and sometimes don’t praise the ones that kept persisting but never reach a correct answer. I don’t alway have enough time to explore all of the options so I guide the kids toward success knowing that some venues will lead them to failure. I shield them from it sometimes because I don’t want to crush their spirits.
We have to stand up for our children and we have to turn this notion around that failure is the worst thing that can happen. Failure is not the worst; not trying is. We have to keep our kids believing in themselves and having enough confidence to try something. If we don’t we are raising kids that follow all of the rules, that never take risks, that never discover something new. And that failure is too big to remedy.
Ability Grouping Versus Tracking – What’s in a Name?
For math you can do flex grouping, also based somewhat on ability as determined through pre-tests and personalties, and this too is totally permissible. It allows for smaller groups and different pacing of curriculum, as well as remediation and enrichment.
Yet, if you take away the gentler names and introduce the word “tracking”, then both of these scenarios lose their luster. So I wonder, out loud as usual, is ability grouping really just tracking with a kinder name?
If we ability group in elementary are we setting students on their path for the rest of their academic career or are we indeed teaching them within their zone of proximal development and then spurring further growth? Are we able to group students in such a way that all are challenged at their level without breaking them apart? Can we effectively meet every single child’s needs within in a classroom setting during our instruction time without identifying which skill they specifically need to work on and them grouping them to work on them?
I would love your thoughts on this.