Author: Pernille Ripp
Can Schools Really Stop Bullying?
loved like only a child can adore their teacher, someone who was supposed to protect and guide me as I grew as a learner. Instead she made it her mission to make me feel like the freak (her words) and bad influence (again her words) that she saw me as.
My mom did the right thing, she contacted the principal. She held me when I cried. She spoke to other parents. She fought for me, but in the end with the Danish school system being so that you have the same classroom teacher from 1st through 9th she knew that this was a losing battle. So in the middle of 5th grade, I hugged my teacher (yes, really) and said goodbye to all my friends to start a school in a different city.
I speak of my bullying experience as I find myself wondering whether schools can truly prevent and protect children from bullying. While my case was an extreme one, usually teachers do not bully their own students, it still followed a pattern of hidden targeting and isolation My teacher was very good at making it look like she didn’t hate me and so when we spoke to the principal he mostly thought we were making it up. She messed up though when she started contacting other parents telling them to keep their children away from me outside of school. She messed up when she kept all of the girls in the classroom behind to have them share how much of a bad influence and terrible friend I was.
But most of our students, when they bully, are very good at keeping it secret. Perpetrators are often those students that know how to manipulate teachers into believing that they would never do such a thing. Ask any parent and they will tell you that they know that their kid is probably different at school than they are at home. I know Thea has done stuff at daycare typical of a 4-year-old that I still have a hard time believing she would do. So we don’t often see the bullying happen and rely on testimony that turns into he said/she said discussions. We wring our hands, trying to see through the chatter and try to figure out what really happened. We document, of course, and pass on to the powers that be. We contact parents and keep a paper trail trying to find patterns, but for what? Often, if the bullying is bad enough students don’t report it. Perhaps they fear further retaliation or escalation. Perhaps they assume that we as a school cannot do much. Perhaps they don’t think they will be believed. And so it continues and we can truly do nothing for the unreported.
Yet, if we look at what we can do as a school it is depressingly little; we can scold, we can discuss, we can take away recess. We can take away privileges, we can threaten and guilt, we can suspend. We can try to mend relationships and we can try to educate. But is all of that enough? Can we truly as a school protect kids from bullies? Or can we only hope that all of the effort we put into preventing it is enough?
How To Give Your Students a Voice; Advice From Someone Who Tries
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I often find myself discussing “Giving students a voice” in the classroom with people who wonder what I exactly mean. Sure, giving someone a voice sounds great, but how do I know that I am doing that? What can I do to do that? What does it look like? I am not an expert but here is what it looks like to me.
Ask yourself: Do my students have a say in what they are doing right now?
Classroom Routine. I don’t make the rules of our classroom my students and I do. We discuss them at the beginning of the year and then we modify them as we go. They have a voice and a right to decide how their classroom will run. We have non-negotiables such as respecting others and then go from there. Every year is different because every group is different.
Classroom setup. This is vital to giving students a voice and often overlooked. We can dicate our agenda just as easily through our setup as through our words. Where is your desk located How is it faced? Where is the main area of the room? Where is the focal point? Can they manipulate the physical classroom? Can they move desks, tables, areas? Do they decide where they work? Do they decide how they work? All of this gives them a voice.
Assessment. I do not believe in the power of a report card or in the power of grades. So students and I discuss what a well-done product should look like. Students self-reflect a lot and set goals. They discuss goals with me, with their parents, and with each other. We strive for accountability and also a deeper understanding of what it means to create.
An outlet. Students must know that they have somewhere where they can always turn to speak to each other, to me, to the world. Our student blogs do that for us and I encourage them to speak freely. Many of them do and I always grow from what they post. So find an outlet for their voice so that they know someone is listening.
Global Read Aloud and I Get a Bammy Nomination
Those who know me know that I struggle with nominations, badges, and awards. I have no problem nominating others, I believe great people and initiatives should receive as much recognition as possible, but I tend to shy away from highlighting myself. That is not what I am here for.
In the past few weeks, tweets and Facebook posts have been propping up about the Bammy awards 2013. I know of the Bammys and have found myself conflicted with the self-nomination portion but at the same time excited that at least some people are trying to elevate people within education because my goodness someone has to.
This morning, in a week that has been nothing but tiring, I received news that I had been nominated for a Bammy by the academy behind it. At first, I was shocked, then very surprised. However, when I read the nomination and saw why they had nominated me I wanted to scream with joy. This nomination is now about me, but about the Global Read Aloud and that I can promote any day.
Here is an excerpt from the nomination, and yes, you can vote for me, but you don’t have to. But do join us in the Global Read Aloud 2013, because that is where the real magic will happen.
Amazed almost every day by the extraordinary initiatives launched by educators in the trenches that remain largely unknown despite the impact they are having. The work of Pernille Ripp under scores why it’s so important to broadcast whatis right in American education. Pernille is the creator of the Global Read Aloud. From her site:
The project was created in 2010 with a simple goal in mind; one book to connect the world. Now with three years under our belt and more than 30,000 connections made, we realize we are on to something larger than us so we look forward to continuing the global connections.
The premise is simple; we pick a book to read aloud to our students during a set 6-week period and during that time we try to make as many global connections as possible. Each teacher decides how much time they would like to dedicate and how involved they would like to be. Some people choose to connect with just one class, while others go for as many as possible. The scope and depth of the project is up to you. In the past we have used Twitter, Skype, Edmodo, our wiki, email, regular mail, Kidblog, and any other tools we can think of to make these connections. Teachers get a community of other educators to do a global project with, hopefully inspiring them to continue these connections through the year.
How do you measure the instructional value of Pernille’s initiative? How is her level of passion and commitment captured in a standard teacher evaluation? Clearly, any teacher who manages to touch 30,000 lives is extraordinary. We are honored to nominate Pernille Ripp.
So I Asked My Students Their Thoughts on Standardized Testing
We think we know how testing effects kids, and we do know part of it, but some of their answers surprised even me. Many of my students don’t get what it is they are being tested for. Many of my students, who otherwise love technology, hate being tested on the computer. They hate the strain on their eyes. They hate feeling that everyone can see their screen. They hate knowing that others have finished while they lumber on. They hate not being able to go back and check their answers. They kept asking me what will be on the test and when I said that I wasn’t quite sure because we are not privy to that information, they thought I was lying. Why would I not be able to tell them what they would be tested on? That didn’t make any sense to them or to me.
Do You Have to Be Connected to Be A Great Teacher?
In fact, the whole notion of being a great teacher, administrator, or whichever role one plays in education seems to be split between two large camps. There are those that believe that as long as they deliver relevant content every day, cover the standards, get through what they need (even artfully so) that then they are doing their job. That is what makes them a great educator. Then there are those that believe that to be a great educator, one must be connected through something (social media, local group whatever), should be researching new ideas, and should definitely be implementing those. Then one can be a great educator.
Those are two very different camps to be in. One sees no need for outside connections and the other sees the creative urgency in having them. One does not find the time necessary to make connections because it is not deemed essential to being a great teacher. Whereas the other wholeheartedly believes in the necessity of these connections and thus takes the time to do so. I wonder if the unconnected educator can be just as great as the connected one, I tend to lean toward a resounding yes because of what I see on a daily basis; plenty of “unconnected” educators that are still phenomenal teachers. And yet, I wish they were connected because so many of them have great things to share.
So when I come across people that do not understand why I tweet, blog, or connect with other that I may never meet, I often wonder how they get inspired. I know where I draw my inspiration from; my students, my family, and my PLN. Where do those that do not have a PLN get theirs? I know I cannot convince them of the power of dedicating time to connecting, sharing, reflecting in a an open forum until they deem it important enough to dedicate their time. And that is an entirely different mindset to cultivate, so how do we do that?


