Category: students
What I Won’t Do on the First Day of School
This year, I promise my students to not:
- Sit behind my desk and wave at you, but instead be in the hallway, smiling.
- Expect you to put everything away and stay organized, after all, learning can be kind of messy.
- Hand you a folder with paperwork to fill out so that I can get to know you better. Real community comes from conversation.
- Give you a list of my rules; we will make expectations together.
- Welcome you to “my room,” it is our room!
- Talk about all of the homework you will have, instead I will share the great knowledge we will uncover.
- Tell you how you can earn rewards; no stickers, stars or trinkets in here – knowledge is our reward.
- Pretend that I know what you are going to say or only partially listen; you are my focus and will be the whole year.
- Run to the teacher’s lounge and share stories about those kids that I have. Instead I will share just how phenomenal this year will be.
- Pretend that I have all of the answers or am the absolute authority in the room; this is a journey we take together and you get to teach me as well.
- Hide that I am nervous. I don’t know you either so, of course, I am nervous.
- Tell you how to get an “A.” Learning is not about grading, it is about learning, so grades will not be a main focus.
- Second-guess everything I said or did; I will trust in myself and hope you do the same.
- Be afraid to try something you suggested; after all, what is the harm in trying?
So You Want to Use Kidblog?
I am practically counting down the days until school starts just bursting at the seams with all of the great technology we are going to use next year. One of our main components will be our kidblog but since this is the first year anyone has done anything like this in my school, there was some safety business to handle first. So here are my links to an internet safety plan my students will sign as well as the kidblog introduction letter I am sending home to parents.

Stand Up if You are Average…Anyone?
We label students to make it easier for us to teach them. Administration likes the labels because they can show how we improve, newspapers like labels because it shows people what their tax dollar is spent on. Unfortunately, we assume a lot of the time that if a student is “low” in math then that carries over to other subjects as well. (See my previous post on how I feel about assumptions). So just as we place kids in the high group, we also place kids as average learners. Think about the implication of that though; by labeling someone average, which has practically become a swear word, we are closing off our view of them as a learner. No longer allowed to evolve, that child is just average. Imagine saying that in a parent-teacher conference.
And yet, our students amaze us. The biggest hallelujah moments I have had have been when those “low” or “average” learners all of a sudden understood complicated concepts or excelled at a task. I don’t have those same hallelujah moments when my “high” learners figure something out, after all, they are supposed to figure it out. Have you ever seen gifted students struggle? It is the same struggle that all students go through and yet we tend to gloss over it because we have more confidence in them as learners because of their label. And yet, once we have labeled someone as gifted we don’t reevaluate that label. Sure, Suzy may be gifted in math but does that mean she is gifted in everything else, not just subjects, but life? No, it means she is really good at math.
So if someone is “average” we assume they are always “average” except for those few moments where they shine. This is a debilitating view of your classroom and something I wish to combat next year. Truth is, all of our students are low, average, and high learners. The categories and labels change depending on the topic, the subject, the style of learning, the assignment, the day, the weather – so many factors change it. If we are too set in our ways as educators, we will fail to notice how these labels are suffocating our students, if we do not make the labels or groupings flexible.
So promise yourself to not label your students, or at least label them for that task at that moment and then go back and revisit that label for the next task. It may seem like a lot of work but your learning experience as a classroom will be much improved. And you may even raise the confidence level of a couple of students in the process.
So What is Your Assumption?
Well, as I went back to hotel room I thought more about these assumption and just how closed off they make me. And even more so, how these assumptions hurt me more in the long run than anyone else. It also made me realize how on a daily basis in my classroom I assume many things.
Home Life:
All the time, we assume that students have a certain type of home life depending on their socioeconomic status, their skin color, their language, their homework completion etc. Often these assumptions lead to how we “deal” with the students in terms of giving another chance to do homework or extended time on a test. Even more often we don’t have the time or chance to find out what really is going on in their home life and in turn affecting them greatly at school. How many times do you assume that the smart student who is always happy is actually experiencing her parents fighting all the time? We are good at assuming that our poor students come from broken homes and good at assuming that our white kids have both mom and a dad. It is time we stopped thinking we know “those kids” and really get to know our students.
Cooperation:
We always know which child will be the difficult one after orientation day, you can just see it on them, right? Wrong. That child may have a bad case of the nerves, I know I do, or just wake up super grumpy; guilty of that as well. I will not believe anyone that says they can judge a person within the first 5 minutes. If you think you can, maybe you should look at how often you were wrong. I can tell you countless times those first day perceptions were dead wrong.
Intelligence:
This is something we all partake in whether we are willing to admit it or not. We base our misconceptions on things such as hair color, height, weight, skin color, accent or dialect, clothing and the list goes on. How many times have you heard someone describe someone’s intelligence level with a knowing look and a hint to where they come from, because that explains it all? Well, it doesn’t. Being both blond and foreign I have two things stacked against me. People either assume I am Swedish or stupid, I disagree with both when needed and get offended when I have to.
Basic Knowledge:
As a teacher, I hope that all of my students have learned all of the curriculum they are supposed to have learned by the time they get to my room. I certainly know that my co-workers do their very best in teaching them. And yet, how many times have I been proven wrong when I think I know exactly what my students know or don’t know?. That kid that struggles in math might be really good at math facts, or that kid that writes 3 grade levels below might be a strong reader. And it even goes the other way; strong readers may be terrible writers. Just because we think we know does not mean we really know it all.
So, I am not a saint; I will go on assuming as I always do. And yet, I do promise to try to assume less or at least check out my assumptions after I have made them. I feel that we assume because it provides us with a sense of security; when we can label a person then we know how to handle them. I wish I could tell you that at the beauty pageant I had many “hallelujah moments” where I was shamed out of my assumptions; I didn’t. However, it wasn’t because my assumptions were right, I just thought it was much more fun to think I knew everything instead of being proven wrong. I am after all just a human being.
The Hidden Rules of a Classroom
This incident made me think about the hidden rules of our classrooms. Sure ,we post rules and expectations, short and to the point, on our walls and expect our students to agree to follow them. What we don’t post though, are our hidden rules and expectation, the terms and conditions if you will, for being in our classroom. And those tend to be the most important rules.
I have pet peeves I call them, they include sharpening your pencil while someone is talking (me), waving your hand in someone’s (my) face to get attention, interrupting someone (me), not cleaning up after yourself, and not taking responsibility for missed/late work. I try to divulge these in the first few days of school and yet there are always some that I miss. Every year, I end up being internally disappointed by the actions of a student who really had no way of knowing that taking off their shoes really bothers me (it is unsanitary).
So, at the end of this year I asked my students to write about what they wish they had known at the beginning of the year. Much to my surprise, Mrs. Ripp’s pet peeves came out on top. Wow! I had no idea that this was something important in the eyes of my students. So this year, I am going to be honest. Yes, I hate when you sharpen your pencil (switching away from electric pencil sharpeners because of this), I hate when you spin your ruler on your pencil (don’t poke your eye out), when you put your head down on your desk (are you sleeping?), and when you don’t tell me you haven’t done your homework and I have to find out. But no one knows that unelss I tell them and then they can sign up to learn in my classroom knowing all the terms and conditions, not just the ones in bold on the first page.
