Awards, reflection, rewards

When Your Child Receives an Award

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You could see her pride from the front door. “Look mom!  Look what I got!”  Thea stands in front of me holding a signed award of recognition certificate given to her by her incredible 4K teacher.   Apparently on November 5th Thea had great behavior and she now hands me the certificate to prove it.  Of course it goes on the fridge.

That night as I clean up after dinner, the award catches my eye and the irony of it hanging there so prominently hits me.  I don’t believe in awards in my classroom, it is one of the things I threw out 3 years ago and have never regretted.  And yet, today I saw just what that piece of paper meant to my kid.  You couldn’t have burst her bubble even if you tried.  But still…I wonder if this means that November 5th was the only day Thea has been behaving well?  Or was it her turn to be awarded?  What did she do exactly to get this recognition?  Did every kid get it?  I ask her and she has no idea.  All she knows is that her teacher gave this to her and to her that is all that matters.  Granted she is 4 and is not the most reliable explainer but still I wonder how did she even earn it?

Did my students ever know why they earned something?  The thing with awards is that they are subjective and are meant for show.  We pick a goal and then award a kid if they have met that goal.  Often we don’t tell them how they can earn something but instead surprise them when they have.  We make a show of it so that others know that they should try to earn one as well.  We can’t really give one to everyone because then they don’t mean as much, so we continue creating losers and winners in our classrooms simply by giving them a piece of paper or trinket in front of their classmates.  You see, it is not the actual award that sets the kid apart, it is the show of it in front of others.  You need to see that your award is special to you for it to mean something and that just sits wrong with me.   We think that physical awards make kids feel special, yet our words can do the same, in fact, often our words and taking time to say things to a child will have a much more lasting impact than any piece of paper can.  Than any trinket.  Than any ticket.

For now the award stays on our fridge, in a few days, she will no longer care about it and it becomes just another piece of paper in our already paper-filled house.  I don’t plan on keeping it and although Thea tends to hoard paper, I don’t think she will mind.  To her it was validation that she is a good student, to me it was just more questions as to the great intentions we may have as teachers.  Do we really feel we need to award students certificates any more?  Do we really need to put on a show?  Or are we just perpetuating the myth that there must always be winners and losers for people to feel special?

I am a passionate (female) 5th grade teacher in Wisconsin, USA, proud techy geek, and mass consumer of incredible books. Creator of the Global Read Aloud Project, Co-founder of EdCamp MadWI, and believer in all children. I have no awards or accolades except for the lightbulbs that go off in my students’ heads every day.  First book “Passionate Learners – Giving Our Classroom Back to Our Students Starting Today” will be released this fall from PLPress.   Follow me on Twitter @PernilleRipp.

Be the change, being a teacher, Student-centered

I Am the Quiet

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I never used to be quiet.  My classroom was filled with noise from the moment the students arrived until they left.  Whether it was me lecturing, me giving out directions, me keeping them on track, or even a soundtrack of music to keep them motivated, we just didn’t do quiet.  We were loud, we were active, and there was always chatter.

One night, as I yelled at my husband to turn off his music so that I could concentrate on writing, it finally dawned on me.  Perhaps my students didn’t need more noise, perhaps they needed more quiet.  Perhaps I needed to stop talking, perhaps I needed to stop playing the music.  Perhaps I needed to embrace the quiet and let it speak for itself.  Perhaps I needed to be quiet so my students could start speaking.

Now, we are quiet when we need to be.  During reading, you will hear hushed conversations, during writing it is almost silent.  I keep my discussions short.  I try to pull my voice out of the conversation so that my students can figure it out among themselves.  When a child faces me with a problem I sit quietly and think with them, trying to come up with a solution.  When a child is the most unruly and angry, my lower voice and quiet words often diffuse the situation better than any punishment ever could.

Sure there are words, but the quiet now emphasizes them.  No longer do I feel the need to constantly yell over the noise (unless we are doing science!).  No longer do I feel the need to bark out orders.  Sure there are instructions being given, but there is also quiet so they can figure it out.  Quiet so they can think.  Quiet so they can just be.

I am a passionate (female) 5th grade teacher in Wisconsin, USA, proud techy geek, and mass consumer of incredible books. Creator of the Global Read Aloud Project, Co-founder of EdCamp MadWI, and believer in all children. I have no awards or accolades except for the lightbulbs that go off in my students’ heads every day.  First book “Passionate Learners – Giving Our Classroom Back to Our Students Starting Today” will be released this fall from PLPress.   Follow me on Twitter @PernilleRipp.

Reading

How to Get Boys Reading Perhaps

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I never used to worry about boys not reading.  After all, wasn’t that to be expected?  My husband isn’t a big reader and he seems to manage.  Yet, when I realized that I needed to bring the passion back into reading last year in my room, I started to notice my boys.  Those same boys that I had recommended Lightning Thief and Harry Potter to even though they had already read them.  Those boys I had bought Mike Lupica books for because they had to do with sports.  Those boys with their boyish books who I didn’t really push to become passionate readers because I wasn’t quite sure how to do it.  Those boys became my unintended passion.

Today I was asked how I get my boys reading, and while I am not an expert, and some of them still don’t read as much I would love them to, I do have a few ideas.  (And yes, many of these apply to the girls as well).

  • Acknowledge the difference.  And not necessarily the difference between boy and girl readers, but the difference between all readers.  We all have our strengths and we all have our reading demons.  Acknowledge them and figure out how to work through them or with them.
  • Share your own demons.  I tell the kids how fickle I am with book choices, how my time has to be devoted to just the right book.  I tell them what I love to read and what I am likely to pass up.  I also make sure to tell them when I have been surprised by a book.
  • Have honest conversations.  One boy told me “Reading sucks!” and it led to a very meaningful lesson that we have carried with us all year.  Be prepared to be honest, be prepared to not judge, let boys speak their opinions and then work with it rather than be the know-it-all expert.  Just be your human self and start the relationship early.
  • Read their books.  While I am not quick to grab a sports book, some do catch my eye (Stupid Fast was after all one of the Global Read Aloud choices this year because of me).  I am lucky though that I tend to lean toward 5th grade boy book choices naturally.  Science fiction and fantasy – bring it on!
  • Recommend, recommend, recommend.  I read a lot because I need to be able to recommend books to all of my students.  But the boys, those I have to hand the book too, stick it in their book bin, tell them why and then encourage them to try it.
  • Loosen up.  We don’t need to read chapter books all the time.  I have been expanding my graphic novel, non-fiction, and comic book selection the last few years.  Have all sorts of books ready for your boys and let them know it is ok to read them.  Too often we push the chapter book because we think it is one of the only ways to grow as readers, this is simply not true.
  • Let them choose.  Sure we can guide and point out but in the end, let them choose!
  • Let them read wherever they want.  I hate reading in a chair, I am more of a lay down kind of person.  My students may all read wherever they want as they don’t bug someone else.  Few of my boys sit at their table and I am ok with that.
  • Give them different ways to share their thinking.  Some of my boys can draw like madmen, some of them do best on conversation and some of them prefer to just speak to me about what they are reading.  That’s ok, to each their own, I make sure they have many different outlets to talk about their reading.
  • Think about your read aloud.  I am just finishing “Out of My Mind” by Sharon Draper as my first read aloud and so my next one will be something completely different, “The False Prince” by Jennifer Nielsen.  Too often, if we are female teachers, do we grab read alouds featuring female leads.  It is important we showcase all types of lead characters of both sexes.
  • Geek out with them.  I get super nerdy whenever a new book in a favorite series is about to get released.  Yesterday was awesome when the 8th Diary of a Wimpy Kid book was released and we made sure to celebrate it.  We often take reading so serious that we become our own worst enemies.  Have fun with it, it is after all sharing the love of books.  If we can’t laugh about it all, who can?
  • Add a challenge if needed.  The students are all participating in the 40 book challenge to see if they can read 40 books faster than I can.  (One of my students already did!) but we also have a January book challenge where they set individual goals and we combine them as a class goal and then have a huge celebration at the end.  The competitive nature of many of my students feeds right into this without it being about beating someone else.

A note on competition since this has sparked some debate:  It is not competition in my room in the true sense of it.  There is no prize, there is no punishment.  It is about having students have a goal in how many books they should read, here it is explained to parents, and the hope that they will push themselves as readers when we create a sense of urgency.  They are not out to beat each other, no one knows how many books someone else has read unless they share it.   The class challenge is a goal set by all of us, students set individual goals and we add them up.  This can be for any type of reading and we keep track as a class.  It is a way to create community around reading, to give it importance, and for some boys a challenge means it is important.

What else would you add?  How else do we reach our male readers?

For more explanations or further ideas of how to promote reading in your classroom, here is an older blog post.

I am a passionate (female) 5th grade teacher in Wisconsin, USA, proud techy geek, and mass consumer of incredible books. Creator of the Global Read Aloud Project, Co-founder of EdCamp MadWI, and believer in all children. I have no awards or accolades except for the lightbulbs that go off in my students’ heads every day.  First book “Passionate Learners – Giving Our Classroom Back to Our Students Starting Today” will be released this fall from PLPress.   Follow me on Twitter @PernilleRipp.

Be the change, homework

Why the Grade X 10 Minutes for Homework is a Fail

Note: Some of my older posts did not survive the transfer from Blogger to WordPress, thus these are older posts that still bring up valid points.

As I prepared for my first orientation day powerpoint as a new teacher, I knew I had to fill in homework expectations and how much parents could count on.  I was reminded to use the old formula 10 minutes times the grade of the child, excellent, 40 minutes of homework for a 4th grader.  Now this is what my brain should have thought;  “Wait a minute Pernille, 40 minutes of homework, a night?  Plus 20 minutes of expected reading with parent initials?  And a book report every 6 weeks?  And math tests every 3?  Not to mention science and social studies quizzes, which really are tests but just with a friendlier name.  What in the world am I saying?”  Except,  I didn’t and the rest, as they say, is history. Those kids had homework coming out of both ears because that is what I thought teachers did; assign work.  40 minutes seemed fair and reasonable and why shouldn’t it be?  Aren’t we in the business of making students accountable and responsible?  Aren’t we teaching them how to be effective workers, preparing them for the real world?

Except homework is really not thoughtful when you just spew the formula.  Homework then becomes the brainless act of repetition, not metacognition that we all should be striving for.  Homework becomes the incessant chore we all seem so hellbent on making it.  I know we are trying to raise responsible children, but is homework really the only way we can do this?  Can we not accomplish those same goals of responsibility, time management, and work habits without the insane amount of homework?  Can we, as educators, realize that perhaps we do not have the right to infringe on students’ lives outside of class up to an hour or more every night?  Haven’t students already given us 7 to 8 hours of work?

I, for one, limit my homework giving and not because I am a hippie that doesn’t believe in hard work.  We do work hard in my classroom, in fact, my students relish how much we get done in a day because it means they are managing their time.  It means they are creating a work ethic that says give school your undivided attention for a whole day and you will be rewarded with free time.  Do your job here right and then you don’t have to worry about it as much outside of school.  And a formula can never encompass that.

So it is time we give up on the formula.  It is time we realize that homework is not something we have to give just to give the kids work, that there are other ways to teach students motivation, time management, and effective work habits  There are other ways to ensure all of the curriculum is covered and that knowledge is garnered.

This year, on the first day, I will tell the parents that there may be work outside of school and that it will differ from day to day.  I will tell the parents that my mission is to keep work inside of my classroom so that the students may breathe a little bit.  I will tell them there that will be projects, there will reading, sure, but there will also be time to be a kid, to live a little.  No homework doesn’t mean no learning, it means school was kept at school and that is a good thing.

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From the Mouths of Babes – My Students Discuss Homework

Note: Some of my older posts did not survive the transfer from Blogger to WordPress, thus these are older posts that still bring up valid points.

Thanks to a wonderful Time For Kids article this week, my students engaged in a 30 minute discussion on whether or not teachers should assign homework (we ran out of time or it could have gone longer).  I started out taping the discussion, hoping to share it, but the camera stifled them, so I turned it off and instead just listened and asked a couple of questions.  And the result?  Well, it was mixed.

Many students believed that homework was a necessary evil at first, and by that I mean, they think they should be assigned it so they can learn responsibility.  However, when I asked them whether they could be taught responsibility in a different manner they all agreed they already were responsible in school.  After that they started changing their mind.  Some highlights for me were:

  • We already work our hardest at school and deserve to be done with school when the bell rings.
  • We are tired when we get home so homework does not represent our best work.
  • Some times our parents cannot help us and we end up more confused.
  • Teachers do not own our time outside of school, but why do they think they do?  They can’t for example order us to go to Target.
  • I want to have a life outside of school and pursue my activities.
  • It is ok to have homework during the week but never during the weekend or during holidays.
  • If a student works hard during the day and is responsible, they should be able to not have homework after school.
  • It is ok to assign reading and special projects but they have to be super fun and have student choice.
  • Homework does not teach us responsibility but instead teaches us to get it done fast.
  • Homework should not be graded since it is just practice.
  • Homework should be assigned because school has to come first and that is our job.

I love the level of thinking I am seeing in these students as they develop their discussion habits. They are figuring out when to speak and reacting to each other’s comments.  I also love how they are evaluating the world and learning to speak their minds.  I believe the camera stifled them because some were nervous in stating their opinion, after all, they are only 5th graders, what do they know?

blogging, reflection, Student-centered

A Student Reflects on Blogging and Time

As you know my students are avid bloggers and this year is no different.  Their thoughts about the world, their lives, and what we do are reaching students and adults around the world.  Although they have a blogging challenge every week, many times my students choose to blog on their own whatever their thoughts may be.  I was thrilled to see this reflective post from Rose, as she battles with a question that many of us battle with.

Rose writes:

It’s not what it sounds like.I’m writing on my IPAD again, and I was just thinking, blogging is hard. I know I sound crazy, but it kind of is, you would think that you just hop on the computer and write about exciting events. maybe that happens to other people, but I think it can be difficult to balance it all. To blog, you need something exciting that is worth writing about, but you can’t write about things if you are out doing those exciting things.

I run on Tuesdays and Thursdays for 2-ish hours, and I dance every other Wednesday  I could sit here typing all about how we learned a mini dance to Applause. I could say how I ran over two miles on both Tuesday, and Thursday. Bu when I get home, I’m tired from doing those things. Or I just don’t have time. Don’t get me wrong, I love blogging, even on my old IPAD. I wouldn’t stop. But it is hard, sometimes.

Mostly the time part, I barely have the time or energy to blog sometimes, never the less comment!! All the people commenting on my, and my friends blogs, my figurative hat is off to you. How do you do it? I believe I will go comment on some blogs now, because I have the time and energy.

If you’ve the time, then please comment and honestly, tell me how you do it, how you manage to read blogs, comment on blogs, and presumingly, blog. I really would like to know.

So how do we do it?  Where do we find the time and why is it important?  You can comment here or directly on Rose’s blog.