If I asked most of my students, they would consider me a great teacher for them. They would tell you how safe they feel in our classroom, how they feel respected, how they feel like what we do is worth their time. It is easy feeling like a great teacher if those are the only voices you pay attention to. But if you were to speak to a few, perhaps the ones who would need some extra goading, perhaps those who choose to remain mostly silent throughout our time together, a different story would emerge. They still hate English, they still hate reading and writing, they find little value in what we do, and some, probably, also see little value in me.
I don’t think I am alone in that. Our schools are filled with both kids who flourish and those who don’t. Those who see the value added to their lives in what we do and those who don’t. Those whose days consist of success and those who have limited success. But whose voices are being heard in our conversations? Whose voices are shared in assemblies? Whose voices are shared when we invite incoming families in to discuss what a school experience consists of with us?
And what happens when we don’t monitor whose voices get the most space within our school? When we once again select the few kids that we know will speak up, speak eloquently, and will stick to the message that we know reflects us best? It means that we create a false sense of accomplishment, as if student voice is something we can checkoff, as if everything we do is exactly right and all we need to do is just stay the course.
I worry about the echo-chamber we sometimes create, whether inadvertently or purposefully. How many of us purport to support student voice but then only give the biggest space to those we know will shine a positive light. How we assume that a child must view their schooling as favorable as long as their scores, grades, percentages show them as successful. How we squelch the voices of those who may have less than stellar experiences to share. How we dismiss their voices as simply kids carrying a grudge, or not understanding, or simply just being in a tough spot. How easily we dismiss their experiences rather than recognizing them for the incredible learning opportunity they are. A chance to dive into what we still need to work on, a chance to create a partnership with those whose experiences are not successful despite our carefully laid plans and best intentions.
When I ask others to make space for students to reclaim their voices, I don’t just mean those whose voices echo our own sentiments. I don’t just mean those who will present us in the best of lights. All means all and that includes those who will tell us the unguarded truth even when the truth hurts. This is why in all of my presentations there is truth that hurts, statements that made me grow, that felt like failures when I first was given them. It is important to model to others what real feedback looks like, to acknowledge that at times we will fail our students. That at times we will not be the teacher, or the school, or the district that they needed us to be and we now have to figure out how we can do better, with them. Because that is what the truth does; it gives us a chance to grow. To become something more than we were before, but we cannot do that if we only make space for those voices who will tell us all of the good we are doing without mentioning the bad. If we only select a few to represent the many without giving everyone a proper chance to speak up, to be heard, to shape their experience.
So survey all of the kids. Give space to all of the kids. When students are invited to speak at your training events, at your staff meetings, at your school board meetings, invite a broad range of perspective. Sure, invite those kids in where the system is clearly working, but also invite those who tell us through their behavior that it’s not. Who perhaps may be doing well but who really do not love it. Monitor who you give space to so that all experiences can be represented because if you don’t then it is really just a sham representation. And then ask meaningful questions, not just those where students will provide you with sound-bytes that will do little to move the conversation along.
Ask them if they feel respected.
Ask them if they feel valued.
Ask them if they feel represented.
Ask them if what we do matters.
Ask them how by working together we can make it better.
And then listen to their voices, all of them, and instead of dismissing their words take them for what they are; the biggest gift to do better, to be better. An invitation to create an education that matters to all, not just some, and who can say no to that?
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6 thoughts on “On Student Voice and How All Means All”
OMG, this is such an important message. Thank you. I’m retired university prof and this message is just as relevant regardless of the year of schooling. And the university students are paying for the opportunity to sit in our classes, they certainly deserve that consideration as well. Thanks again.
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I think a lot about my classroom, I think about my practice, sometimes I forget to think about Authentic student voice. I will ask myself these questions at the end of each day. Can I transfer these thoughts to other parts of my life? Can and should I be asking whose voice do we center? Do I need to be the one that is heard?
I’m so glad there are teachers like you. Too many of our kids do not get encouragement or respect anywhere outside of school. I’m thankful that they at least have great teachers. I wish our country could pay teachers double what they make now.
Great article, Pernille – thanks. Do you give your students an evaluation survey? I’m playing with the idea of putting something together for that purpose in Google Forms … but would love to see yours if you’re open to sharing. Thanks, Tim.
I like the idea/practice of giving everyone a voice. But I think it also makes some educators feel that it is all on their backs. To do as much for our students but still see a sector of the student population who sees no value in school despite the efforts of good teachers often leads to their home situation. No matter what we do, it is near impossible to change the daily/lifelong habits of bad and neglectful parenting. We can be there to support these kids, encourage and show respect, but if they don’t want to participate we should not feel we did something wrong or too little. At some point the horse may come to drink the water, but we cannot force it.
Please remember that not all children that are struggling in school have neglectful parents. A large percentage of children struggling have some type of learning disability or challenge that creates this look of not caring. They do care. If they could do well they would. You don’t see A students with attitudes or issues because they already are doing well . Behavior is communication. Pernille wrote about listening to their voice. Kids want and need to be listened to. We can speculate all we want and guess what is happening in the home but until we actually try to figure out what is getting in that kids way by actually asking them we will never really know. Sure sometimes they have a lousy family life but these are the kids we need to listen to because these are the kids we lose. There are ways to help . Go to Lives in the Balance non profit and find free resources on how to reach what you may see at the inreachable. Pretty amazing stuff.
Thanks Pernille! Another eye opening amazing post.
Proceed With Compassion. ❤️