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We Can’t Control Everything – And That’s Ok

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Seeing our baby for the first time

Augustine was supposed to be born February 23rd, 2014.  Instead on December 19th at 5:25 PM  she arrived so quickly in a dire situation that the nurse had to catch her because the doctor was not even in the room.  As we look at our 30 week old baby, there are so many thoughts crowding my mind, but the biggest one is, we cannot always control everything.

I thought I had this 3rd pregnancy all figured out.  I thought I had my plan figured out, when I would go on leave, when we would set up her things, when we would move the twins out of the cribs.  What I would pack, how I would say goodbye to my students, how the delivery would go.  I was wrong on every single account.  And yet, it all worked out ok, she is here, she is safe, and yes our journey forward is going to be very different than the one imagined, but this was what needed to happen to ensure her survival.  I may have thought I had it all figured out, but she proved me wrong.

How often do we make such meticulous plans that it is more the actual unraveling of our plan that is our undoing and not the actual new course of events that undoes us?  I am not unnerved by the situation, but by the newness of everything happening.  This was not in my plan.  This was not how it was supposed to be, but it is.  And that’s ok.

How often does this happen in our rooms when we stand with our meticulous lesson plans, our action charts, and our intended learner outcomes?  How often do we think we have a kid figured out just right so that we keep them on the right path and their actions prove us wrong?  How often do we listen to the child in front of us telling us how to do something rather than just go with the plan we decided?  How often does that child know themselves better than we ever could?

We try to plan every moment, even when we know it is out of our control.  We try to set things up optimally, even when we can’t.  Augustine may have been our Christmas surprise but she has already brought so much to our lives.  I am humbled by what I have to learn from her as she grows.

 

being me

Homework Meme Here I Go

I have been nominated by some wonderful bloggers a few times to do the homework meme blog that has been going around.  Each time I have resisted but I have then found myself quite enjoying reading others’ posts and getting to know them better.  Since I am also on bed rest right now, I figured it would keep me busy for a little bit as well.  SO thank you to @classcollect among others for nominating me to blab about myself.

So what is this thing?  A nomination requires some reflecting and some fun at the same time. The requirements include:

  • Acknowledging the nominating blogger(s) – so thank you so much Amy for throwing my name in the mix, others have as well but I am too pregnant to remember who!
  • Share 11 random facts about yourself
  • Answer the 11 questions the nominating blogger has created for you
  • List 11 bloggers you believe deserve some recognition and a little “link-juice”
  • Post 11 questions for the bloggers you nominate to answer and notify them

11 Random Facts – hmm, hard for me to do because I live life very openly.

  1. So the first one should be that I live a very transparent life, in fact, I tend to share more than many would.  However, I like to reflect openly and honestly and I think it has led me to where I am today as a blogger, teacher, and person.
  2. I only started a fashion blog because I hated the way I was dressing and was feeling very slumpy.  So now I have to actually think about what I wear before I leave the house and I pride myself on the fact that I re-use a lot of my clothes in new ways rather than just buy new stuff.
  3. I fell in love with Brandon almost right when I met him, however, I thought he would be the one that got away so I was shocked when he broke up with his girlfriend and then started to date me 9 months later.  We moved in together the first night we confessed our feelings and have now been together almost 13 years.
  4. Our first 3 children were with different levels of help from fertility.  I chose to go public with it on this blog because I knew I was not alone in this struggle and also chose to say goodbye to the child I lost on this blog.  Hard things to post about but a relief when I hit publish.
  5. I have always loved writing but had no intention to ever tell anyone about it.  Several college professors told me I should publish something but I scoffed it off.  I am humbled to have a book coming out sometime soon from Powerful Learning Press and terrified that no one will like it.
  6. I sing constantly and majored in music in Denmark, I love karaoke but have super low self esteem when it comes to performing in front of others.  Think shaking hands and close to passing out before I speak or sing.  Brandon is the one that makes me do it and I always have a great time busting out Black Velvet or Sweet Child O’ Mine.
  7. I wholeheartedly believe that we can change the world.  While some may think this is a just a silly notion that teachers have to preach, I really try to live it.  If a kid leaves my classroom wanting to come back the next day I believe that plants a seed of change.  We may not be able to see the change we make, but we can plant the seed.
  8. I am honest to  a fault and it gets me into sticky situations.  I believe in telling people how I feel rather than telling others but that does not always go over well.  So I have been trying to find the balance between my own bluntness and the American tendency to skirt around the issue.  It is a constant thing in my life and my husband helps me with it whenever I turn to him.
  9. I am an introverted extrovert which means I have no idea how to handle new social situations.  This is also why I don’t go to many conferences because I am afraid I will not live up to people’s expectations.
  10. I am terribly sarcastic in my sense of humor but thankfully my husband thinks I am funny.  I am not really, he just brings the best out in me.
  11. I am very protective of the people I love, including my students.  I have been compared to a lion mother protecting her cubs, which can be both good or bad.

Now to the questions Amy posted:

  1. What Disney Character would you be?  Oh dear, most of them are fairly one dimensional.  I was always drawn to the story of Peter Pan, not because I wanted to stay a child forever but because I wanted to fly.
  2. 2. What is the coolest app you have read about or use?  Oh dear, I am awful at this too.  I love the Mailbox app and currently I am unfortunately using the contraction timer app a lot.

    3. Have you ever skyped in your classroom?  All the time!  We mystery skype, we do the global read aloud, we give book recommendations, we bring in authors and experts.  I think Skype is one of the easiest tools to use to bring the world in.

    4. What twitter chats do you follow?  I am terrible with chats because my life gets in the way, but I do love #titletalk, #nerdybookclub, #edchat, #5thchat and #wiamigos.  The hashtag #nerdlution is making me very happy as well at the moment.

    5: What is the best thing about teaching?  The kids!  Hands down and the never-ending challenge.

    6. What is your favourite Stationary item?  I am slightly addicted to good thin ballpoint pens, luckily Brandon shares my same obsession so we are not allowed to go to an office store.  It gets expensive.

    7. Cake or Ice Cream?  Cake all the way, but Danish ones all the way.  I miss our bakery culture so much.

    8. House Pet: Snake or Ferret?  Neither.  I am a cat person but we have a gerbil right now.

    9. Favourite Movie?  Stand by Me or Sound of Music.

    10: Best gift you ever got?  My husband.  Lame I know but he seriously had made my life so much better and it is because of him I have the incredible life I have right now.

    11. Why did you want to become a teacher?  Because I wanted to make sure another child never got bullied the way I did by a teacher.

I will not list 11 bloggers to make answer these questions, but will give the challenge to you!  Please join the meme if you want and let me know so that I can get to know you better.  And to help you here are my 11 questions for you:

  1. What is the last book that you passed on to someone else to read?
  2. The one song you secretly or not so secretly want to sing at karaoke?
  3. If you had to pick a new name for yourself, what would it be?
  4. What do you wish your administrator would notice?
  5. What is your biggest pet peeve?
  6. What holds you back in pursuing your biggest dream?
  7. Why do you think you are a lovable person?
  8. If every day had an extra hour in it, what would you do with it?
  9. The last song you turned up in your car or house was?
  10. What is a secret talent you may have?
  11. Your favorite animal and why?

So there you have it, a little bit of fun from my bedrest.  Let me know your answers.

being a teacher, reflection, Student-centered

Are the Boys Welcome in Your Room?

One thing I love about being hospitalized (the little baby is trying to make her appearance 10 weeks early) is that I get to speak to all of the incredible nurses that take care of me.  Once they find out I am a teacher the conversations always get even better and today was no different.  We discussed the topic of boys in the elementary classroom, and particularly how female teachers can create boy inviting classrooms.  As this is something near and dear to me, I thought I would offer up a few ideas of how to get boys to feel welcome in our classrooms, or any kid really.

  • Realize the damage of cute.  Angela Watson had a great post that started a huge debate on whether classrooms should be cute or not.  While I don’t mind cute at all I do try to look at classroom decor from a boy’s perspective.  Most boys tend to not love polka dots, pink, cute little animals, and many other cutesy features we spread all over our rooms.  We may find it welcoming and others may not want to be seen in it.  So consider your entire population, not just what you think will brighten up your room.
  • Give them room.  I think we forget that many boys, and many girls (my own daughter included) need lots of room.  Find extra space in your classroom by getting rid of unnecessary clutter.
  • Give them choice for work space.  I swear the moment I let my students pick their work space, I saw their attention shoot through the roof.  Why?  Many of my students prefer working on the floor or in a chair by themselves not touching anyone else.  So give the students room to spread out so they can find their best work space.
  • Have books for boys.  This is huge.  Boys need to be able to find themselves in your classroom library.  I had never considered this until I looked at how many animal books, pink covered books, and friendship books I had collected versus sports, action, or fantasy.  I am not trying to say boys only read these things, but make sure you have books that anyone can gravitate to.
  • Read aloud books with male protagonists.  I change sex of the protagonist every book.  So while we started with “Out of My Mind” by Sharon Draper following the courageous Melody,  we are now reading “The False Prince” by Jenifer Nielsen, sucked into the heroics of Sage.  Keep it balanced for all students to find something to relate to.
  • Tap into the male energy.  I often run my ideas for lesson plans or projects to see if my husband would have wanted it to do it when he was in 5th grade and he never disappoints.  I am always reminded to add more options for the kids, to listen to their opinion, and to make it more hands on.  Engagement for all seems to go up as the students get more involved.
  • Realize your own angle.  Whether you are a male or female teacher realize that you bring in a view of how you want things to be taught, and then realize that it is not the same for everyone.  I fight this every day.  I love learning in a certain way bt many of my students do not, so choice, voice, and passion becomes central tangents in our classroom.
  • Challenge what you know.  For every time I think competition will motivate  a boy, another boy proves me wrong.  For every time I think a quiet contemplation and reflection will motivate a girl, another girl proves me wrong.  I may think I know how to appeal to children based on their gender but that’s not it at all.  In the end, I realize that it is not that I set up my classroom to be female centered on purpose but it is what I know.  We have to create environments where all students are welcome and make sure we don’t create rooms where students feel like guest rather than members.

What other ideas can you add?

students

I Celebrate the Steps in the Journey

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All year he has been working on turning work in.  You know the kid, he has it done but it somehow never makes it into your hands until hours later.  Or he has it done but can’t seem to find it, but then finds it a week later stuck to another piece of paper.  The sheepish grin, the mumbled excuse.  The confused look when I say I haven’t received it.  Yes, it still counts, yes, I believe you when you say it’s done, yes, you still need to get it done.I celebrate this kid today.

She has been using her time well but can never seem to finish.  She leaves her books behind and then mumbles apologies when she gets there in the morning.  She intends to finish but life seems to get in the way.  She gets it but then she didn’t.  I celebrate that kid today.

Not for their lack of completion.  Not for their lack of organization.  Not for their lack of “just do it-ness.”  But for the steps they have taken toward their goal.  That girl never used to let me know it wasn’t done.  That boy never realized it wasn’t done until I told him before.  But now?  They have taken steps to own the problem.  They have taken steps to fix it.  While they have not reached their goal, they are working on it.  And that is something I intend to celebrate.

Every journey starts with a step.  Too often we forget to cheer the kids on who are trying their hardest, sure, they may not be there yet, but it is still important for them to see we notice the effort, we notice their motivation, we notice their change.  While I will break out the big celebration when they have accomplished their goal a quick compliment or thumbs up will only make their journey smoother.  Sometimes all a kid needs is just another push, another reminder, and another smile.  Yes, I see your change.  Yes, I see you try.  Yes, it matters and so do you.

students, technology

13 New to Me Free Tech Tools I Can’t Wait to Use

I had the pleasure of being at SLATE (technology conference here in Wisconsin) the last two days, and beside the wonderful people I got to connect and re-connect with, there was also one session that made me terribly excited. And while I am not usually one to share tech tools, these are all pretty easy, free and fantastic.  All of this come courtesy of Mickey Chavannes @mchavannes.

Doceri – This is an iPad app that students can use to take pictures and then annotate it through their voice or drawing.  You can then upload it to YoutTube for later viewing.  

Way I would use it:  What a great way to assess students in anything!  Particularly when you have a lot of students that you need to speak to.

Peanutgallery – I had forgotten about this Chrome extension one but it is a way for students to narrate over already made black and white films.

Way I would use it:  Besides just being fun I think this would be great to check for student inference and comprehension.  can they create an accurate narration to fit the movie by picking up on the clues?

Tripline – This tool creates a moveable map using Google Maps where you can plot points with text or pictures along the way for the students to read.  

Way I would use it:  Book trips!  Westward Expansion!  Explorer routes!  How awesome would this be to plot the voyages of Christopher Columbus by students?

Clipular – Another Chrome store extension,  basically a screenshot creator, however it also creates a URL citation for you.

Way I would use it:  I hate not having a easy way to do screenshots on my school PC, problem solved!

Awesome screenshot – Another screenshot capturer tool but this one is a bit more fancy.  You can snap and annotate, embed image, any document and then annotate on top of it, through an easy drag and drop.  And it can also be saved into your Google Drive for later viewing.

Way I would use it:  I would have students use this for assessment of their understanding as well as in their projects.

Little Birdtales – Great digital storytelling tool that can be used K-12 (just have students get past the cutesy look).  Students can draw a picture, write on a picture, narrate a picture – and can then share their creation with others.

Way I would use it:  For storytelling of course, but also to listen to student fluency and expression as they narrate their own work.  Or expand it outside of literacy and have them use it for a science project or social studies exploration.

Videonot.es – Allows you to put video on one side and notes on other side of screen – great way to explain what is happening or post questions right in a video.

Way I would use it:  For when I am out of the building to get students through more detailed information, or even for sick students.  If you flip your classroom or lesson this may be a very usueful tool as well.

Audioboo – A way to do a jazzed up podcast, you can put an image on it and then narrate that image.

Way I would use it:  Book reviews for future readers!  Just put in the cover image and have students leave their recommendation for others to hear.   

Clearly – A great Chrome extension that cleans up a webpage so it is just the actual content you want students to see, even better – you can print a nice clean copy right from it.

Way I would use it:  Whenever I need to print articles from the web, no more adds, comments, or any other unnecessary items on a page.

Thinglink – Take a picture, add pinpoints to it and then it explains what the different spots are.  You can even add in picture or video.

Way I would use it:  For students to explain the significance of a picture of a person or an event.

Safeshare.tv – Paste a Youtube link and it cleans it up for you – no ads or other videos.

Ways I would use it:  Any time I show a video in the classroom, no more inappropriate ads or suggested videos.

Movenote  Create an interactive Powerpoint with video and notes, you can add chapters to it so students can view the part they need and links to quizzes in a Google form.

Ways I would use it:  Again, this would be great if I am out of the building, or when students create their projects where I ask them to have an assessment component ingrained.  This way they could quiz the other students right then.

TLDR –  (Stands for Too Long  Didn’t Read) – Another Chrome extension that creates a summary for you of whatever you highlight on a page – yes really!  I even checked it in Danish and it works for foreign langues as well.  

Ways I would use it:  For my beginning readers or ELL students that need a shorter version of the same text as everyone else, this will be a must use.  

And finally the coolest idea shared that I want to do:  Tech Ninjas!  Creating your very own geek squad comprised of techy students that can troubleshoot many problems that may arise with tech in your school.  So instead of creating a tech help ticket, teachers search for a Tech Ninja instead.  I think this is just sheer brilliance, and although it was meant for middle school and up, I wonder if some of my 5th graders wouldn’t be able to do this too.

 

Be the change, being me, Uncategorized

How to Combat The Negative

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I don’t think anyone becomes an educator to spread negativity.  At least not anyone I have ever met.  And yet, there are some that seem to thrive on negativity, that cannot wait to spread the latest bad news, or relive someone else’s failure.  Sometimes you can spot them a mile away, it is like a cloud of negativity surrounds them, but other times they sneak into your life and you don’t even realize the conversation you are engaged in until it is over and you are left with a stone in your stomach or your smile gone.

I used to get sucked into negativity all of the time.  It makes for juicy conversations and it creates an instant bond between those who are commiserating.  It wasn’t until Brandon, my much smarter husband, pointed out how I brought it all home that I realized what I was being sucked into.  I was so eager to share the failures that I didn’t leave room for all of the happy that happened every day.  I had become the negative myself.

So what can you do if you find yourself surrounded by negativity, big or small?  My aha moment was realizing that you don’t need to be a part of it.  You are allowed to leave the conversation or steer it in a different direction.  Now, when a negative conversation starts up around me I try to find the positive in it or crack a joke.  Of course, I am never perfect but this works a lot of the time.

But an even bigger aha moment?  Don’t give the person spreading negativity any power.  When you give your time to someone, you are offering them a part of you.  If you listen to someone, you are giving them power in an audience.  Remove the audience and all they will be left with is their negativity.

In the end, we have to find out own happiness.  We don’t go to school to bring students down so why should the words we pick bring others down?  I laugh more now because I choose to.  Happiness is a choice, as is negativity, don’t be the one others try to steer clear of.